My very close friend and former business partner, Cal, made a post about the corporate interviewing process he is going through. A process he is going through even though he knows he will reject the job if he is offered one. At the risk of being non-political, I'm going to completely disagree with Cal. At the risk of being more non-political, I'm going to be more frank than I normally am and perhaps alienate some people.
I believe that people too often pursue that, which at some core level is not right for them and at some obvious level is not exciting for them. I think people do this for a few reasons:
- To prove that they could succeed in the conventional way.
- To "feel" like they are doing the right thing.
- To pursue a 'safe' path so a passionate, but 'risky' path could be pursued in the future.
While some people try out something they're not passionate about, and then pursue a life of passion. I think many people, unfortunately, follow this path for years and maybe even a life. I personally feel that the best way to be successful is to find your passion, pursue it, and follow it even as it evolves.
Today, I went to another RoadTrip Nation event to watch the screening of their newest documentary where three students take a 21-day road trip to interview very successful individuals. What seemed common among all of the inviduals was that they were willing take on "dedicated poverty". In other words, once these people graduated, they were willing to take on "ramen-noodle (sp?)" lifestyles so they could pursue their passion. And as a result of pursuing their passion, they excelled. And as a result of excelling, they became successful on their own standards and society's standards.
I believe two basic ideas:
- If people spent less time being busy on stuff they're not passionate about, they would have more time for stuff they are passionate about.
- If people spent less time on items that aren't very valuable to them, they would have more financial freedom.
If people didn't spend so much time and money on stuff that isn't important, they would have more time to pursue what they really want.
I learned the power of this when I took a semester off. After 13 years of getting up at 7:00am to catch a yellow school bus and take classes that mostly weren't appealing, I decided that I needed a break. Although A's and B's made mom happy, I stopped blaming boring classes on myself. Memorizing and getting by wasn't enough. Taking a semester off was difficult because everybody told me I shouldn't. My mom spoke VERY strongly with her words (yelling) and actions (not supporting me with rent/food money).
In the end, taking the time off was one of the best decisions I ever made. I dramatically decreased my expenses, but I pursued my passion 24/7 doing whatever the hell I wanted, when I wanted to and ironically choosing to write a book, when writing was always my worst subject.
After this taste of freedom, I decided to dedicate myself to pursuing my passion 100%! Looking back, I've done pretty well, but not 100%. Cal's entry renewed my vigor.